How to Make Love to a Virgin
You may have experience making love to women who are not virgins, and though you are familiar with this routine, making love to a virgin is a different game all together. While the thought of a virgin may turn you on, you must control yourself more than when you are with an experienced woman.
If you are dating a virgin, please remember that she does not really know what to expect, other than what she has heard from her friends. She may be expecting to feel a lot of pain or pleasure, depending what she has heard. This is a big moment for her, and she will be very nervous. It is therefore up to you to make the experience memorable.
Don’t pressure her
While it is acceptable to let her know your desires, and that you need her sexually, it is so important that you should not pressure her into having sex with you. The fact that she is dating you, and is into you, could mean that she might be considering it, but let her take the decision. Giving ultimatums will just make her feel like you are just with her for sex, and this will only make your partner feel uncomfortable.
Make her relax
It is important to make sure your partner is relaxed at all times. To stop her feeling anxious, tell her how beautiful and sexy she is. Take your time with her. Give her a relaxing sensual massage. The more relaxed she is, the more pleasurable the experience.
Be in charge
She will look to you to guide her, as you are the experienced one, so don’t be afraid to take the lead and show her the way. Give her words of encouragement when needed. Reassure her when she becomes uncertain of self conscious. This will help your partner to feel comfortable and safe with you.
Be Gentle
Make sure that she is totally turned on, and that you have her in a state of high arousal before you decide to penetrate her. Once you do begin penetration, do it very slowly and gently. Penetrate her inch by inch. Don’t just shove it in, as you will cause her pain. Be prepared to stop and wait any moment if she needs it. You must be very patient with her and not force penetration.
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