How to Make Intercourse Less Painful for Your Woman

Do you find yourself in this situation?:

No matter what you do, intercourse is just too painful for your woman. You have followed all the rules in making love properly to your partner. You spent enough time on foreplay, and you know for a fact that your partner is totally aroused and sufficiently lubricated. However, no matter what you do, she still finds it extremely painful when you have intercourse with her. There is a reason for this, and there is a way to correct the problem;

You might find that your partner could have the classic symptoms of the disorder known as vaginismus. When a woman has vaginismus, it becomes almost impossible for her partner to penetrate her during intercourse. Even if he is able to penetrate her, the feeling is extremely uncomfortable, or in most cases, unbearably painful. The reason why this happens is because the muscles around the vaginal opening will contract involuntarily. No matter how hard your woman tries to be relaxed during intercourse, she has no control over these muscles.

There are many reasons why this can happen. It can be because of a psychological condition, or physical condition;

The psychological condition could be due to a woman having an unconscious desire to prevent intercourse because she has a fear of becoming pregnant, or simply because she doesn’t want to lose control.

The physical condition could be due to the woman having a pelvic infection, or because of scarring of the vaginal opening which might have occurred due to childbirth, injury, or surgery. It could also be because of irritations that were caused by latex condoms or from douching.

Whatever the case may be, she would need to get diagnosed and then treated.

When she goes for a medical examination, the doctor will look at her history, and will ask her for a full description of the symptoms she is feeling. A pelvic examination will also be done on her. If it is found that she has vaginismus due to a psychological condition, she would then need to see a sex therapist. During this time, her partner should be with her during therapy. However, if it is a physical condition, then she would need to get medical treatment to cure the problem that caused vaginismus. Once that has been treated, the next step would be to treat vaginismus itself.

Whether or not your woman has vaginismus, there is an effective treatment that can be used to rectify the problem. This treatment has helped many women who have suffered from vaginismus to be able to have normal intercourse again.

The treatment involves using very small plastic rods. After sufficiently lubricating these small rods, the woman will then need to insert the smallest rod into the vagina. Once she is comfortable with having a small rod inserted into her vagina, she will then gradually insert a slightly bigger rod. She will continue to do this during the next few weeks until she has the ability to insert a large plastic rod inside her vagina without feeling any discomfort or pain at all. One she has reached this stage, she will then be able to have intercourse with her partner.

In addition to inserting these rods, she should also do kegel exercises. The funny thing is that Kegel exercises are usually used to help tighten the vaginal opening if the vagina is too loose. However, in this case, it is a good idea to do these exercises while the rod has been inserted into the vagina, as it allows a woman to contract the PC muscle so that it makes the vaginal opening tighter around the rod. By doing this, she is allowing herself to feel that she has some control over her muscles that were once before contracting involuntarily.

By combining these exercises with the treatment of inserting the rods, she will be well on her way to being able to have normal intercourse with her partner, as well as being able to enjoy the wonderful feelings that can come from it. 

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