Taking a Closer Look at Each of the 5 Types of Foreplay

Today we will take a close look at each of the 5 types of foreplay you can use to empower your sexual abilities:

EMOTIONAL FOREPLAY (Maintaining the bonds) :

This type of foreplay occurs at every time other than during sexual intercourse. It takes the forms of continual reminder of affection and attraction between you and your partner.

Calling her during the day just to say you love her, holding her hand while doing the shopping or greeting her after the working day with a sincere hug and kiss all form part of emotional foreplay.

By practicing this form of foreplay, your partner will feel safe within the relationship and is more willing and open to new and exciting sexual experience with you.

MENTAL FOREPLAY (Seduction):

If you want your partner to know that you’re in the mood for sex now or later on when the two of you are alone, this is the type of foreplay to be deployed.

Touching your partner sexually through her clothing especially while guests may be in the next room or nearby can be incredibly exciting. Almost as good as forbidden fruit. The fear of being caught can bring on great sexual intensity and anticipation.

Dirty phone calls to each other while at work can also be very exciting especially when colleagues are in the next office. Just be careful though, phone sex can lead to orgasms if you cannot control yourself and the last thing you want is to walk around the office with a wet pants!!!

If phone sex is just too exciting for you, how about text messaging. Leaving sexy messages helps to create the mood for mind-blowing sex after the 2 of you get together.

PRACTICAL FOREPLAY (Paving the way):

Have you ever wanted to engage in sexual intercourse with your partner but she was too concerned about the chores that had to be completed first? Worrying about these chores can really put one off sex for that evening.

This is where practical foreplay comes in. You know exactly what you partner has to do when she comes home from work. How about surprising her by completing these chores for her. Buying take out for the evening, tiding up the house and  getting the kids ready for bed. This shows her that you are willing to share the load when it comes to the household as well as ensuring that she has enough energy and sustained excitement for a satisfying round of sex.

SELF-DIRECTED FOREPLAY (Mental Preparation):

In this form of foreplay, your partner specific rituals either for your benefit or for her own.

These rituals could include taking baths with scented candles and oils and possibly wearing sexy lingerie which is very exciting for the both of you. Bathing together and including aphrodisiac oils and scents is definitely a great turn on.

One rule – never rush your partner at this stage. When she is ready, you will know.

PHYSICAL FOREPLAY (Bring it on!):

This is the type of foreplay that occurs directly before sexual intercourse. At this stage you will use different means to bring your partner to sexual readiness. These methods should be used together for the best results.

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