How to Flirt Non Verbally
Let’s face it; the initial stages of dating can be very stressful for both the man and woman. No one knows what the other is thinking, and both parties are afraid of verbally expressing their feelings or intentions in case they might cause an embarrassing situation.
This is where Non Verbal Flirting comes to the rescue. Simple actions like touching, smiling, postures and facial expressions can say a lot without the need to speak a word;
Communicating with Your Eyes
It all starts with the eyes. This is generally your first point of contact, so use them wisely. If you find yourself in a situation where you and a potential partner exchange glances, then you are in the first phase of eye communication.
If both parties meet eye to eye for more than a second, it means two things: Interest or Hostility. The best way to generate interest is by adding a small, friendly smile when eye communication takes place and hope she smiles back.
Be careful not to stare. This will just make you look like a freak. Many times however, the woman might quickly look away. This could be due to shyness or intimidation. If she never looks back again, leave it alone, otherwise you will look like a freak or pervert. If however she looks back, you know she is interested.
Communicating with Posture and Body Language
The posture of a person can tell a lot about what he or she is thinking. Fore example, she might be nodding and smiling at you while you are talking to her, yet her arms are folded and her legs are pressed tight together. This would usually mean that you are not as trusted as you would like to be.
Paying attention to a woman’s posture and body language will ultimately give you clues on what your next move should be. For example, if her arms are folded, or her legs are facing away from your when she is sitting down next to you, this is a sign that you should probably back off a little more until she feels more relaxed with you.
However, if she is leaning forward towards you, and plays with her hair while you and her are both in a conversation, you are probably ready to move into a more intimate phase with her.
To truly become a successful player, you need to master the basic forms of non verbal flirting. The only way you will be able to do this is by learning to pay attention and listen not only to what she is consciously saying, but also what she is sub consciously saying.
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