How to Use a Vibrator

Wanting to learn how to use a vibrator is a question that is difficult to answer in a general manner. First of all, it depends on what your vibrator has been designed for. Has it been designed for g-spot, clitoral, anal, prostate, or penis stimulation?

Also, is your vibrator waterproof, water resistant, or neither of the two mentioned ? Waterproof means that you can submerge the device totally into the water without worrying about it getting damaged in any way. Water resistant means that you cannot totally submerge it, but can get it wet.

Never use any type of electrical device in the water if it is not waterproof or water resistant. This will damage the vibrator, and if it is a plug-in device, there is a very good chance that you can electrocute yourself.

That being said, there are a few general points that you should keep in mind in order to get the best experience from your vibrator;

First of all, there is no real right or wrong way to use this amazing sex toy. What you need to do instead is focus on what feels good for you. By taking this approach, you will then find your "right way" of using the vibrator.

Set the Right Mood

Before using your new pleasure tool, take some time to get relaxed and comfortable. Remember, this is just another tool that you can use for sexual stimulation. Just as you would need to get yourself in the mood when using your fingers, or having your partner use his or her fingers, mouth and tongue, or any other pleasurable part of his or her body in order to stimulate you, the same applies with a vibrator.

Once you are in the mood and ready, start off slowly by getting to know how your vibrator works before doing anything with it. Play around with the different switches and buttons, and find out exactly what does what. Some vibrators can have as many as seven or eight different functions that work independently of each other, while others tend to stick with the basics and have maybe one or two different functions at the most.

Once you think you have the feel for what’s going on, you can then begin to slowly explore different parts of your body such as your nipples and other sensitive areas with your vibrator.

Remember, think of it as just another amazing sex tool and not as an actual orgasm switch. In other words, it is up to you to find the best way to get the vibrator to work for you in order to orgasm and not expect it to just make you orgasm by turning it on. The only way that you can achieve this is through experimentation and exploration.

Keep Things Slow in the Beginning

When you are ready to turn the vibrator on, keep the vibrations on the lowest setting at first, and then gradually work your way up to stronger vibrations until you feel you have the right settings to suit your needs. If you will be using your vibrator for vaginal or anal penetration, start off first by lightly stroking and caressing the outer areas around the labia or anus. This will help you to get used to the feeling of those vibrations before you insert your vibrator inside your vagina or anus.

Before inserting the vibrator, it is always more pleasurable and comfortable if you use lubrication. The idea is not to overdo it or under do it in terms of how much lubrication you use. The only way that you will get the right feeling is through experimentation. While some people like a lot of lubrication, others prefer to have just enough so that they can still feel a lot of friction during stimulation.

Safety "Cums" First

Be careful what type of lubrication you use. It is highly recommended that you stay away from oil based lubes, especially if it is for vaginal stimulation. Oil-based lubes can cause vaginal irritation and yeast infections. In addition, oil-based lubes can also cause condoms, and any type of sex toy that is made from jelly, latex, silicone, or rubber to disintegrate.

Instead, use water-based lubes. This will ensure that your sex toys do not get damaged in anyway, and will also help you to avoid getting any type of infection that is very common amongst oil-based lubes.

It is possible to use silicone lubes, but only on sex toys that are not made from silicon. The good thing about silicone lubrication is that it feels warm compared to water-based lubes. Silicone lubrication can also last a very long time. Unfortunately, if your toys are made from silicon, silicone-based lubes will cause those toys to deteriorate over time. Another thing to keep in mind is that some women have reported vaginal irritation when using this type of lubrication, so it is always highly recommended that you test any type of lubrication before hand.

Don’t be afraid to experiment with your vibrator. Just because it might have been designed for one particular area of your body, it does not mean that you cannot use it to stimulate other areas such as your nipples, thighs, or other sensitive zones. However, be very careful if you decide to use your vibrator for anal stimulation. Vibrators or dildos that don’t have a flanged base are not recommended for anal stimulation. The reason for this is because the vibrator can easily slip all the way into the anus, making it very difficult to extract afterwards, thus forcing you to make a trip to the emergency room to get it taken out. Therefore, always use a vibrator that has been designed for anal stimulation if you enjoy anal play.

Also, if you insert a vibrator in your anus, or simply want to use it to stimulate the areas around your anus, try to avoid interchanging the vibrator between anal and vaginal stimulation. If you do wish to do so, it is highly recommended that you use a condom when stimulating your anus, and then removing the condom before stimulating your vagina. This will help you prevent bringing any bad bacteria from your anus to your vagina, thus avoiding any type of STD infections.

Putting a condom on your vibrator is also a great way to help keep your pleasure tool clean for future uses. It is also a must if you will be sharing your vibrator with a sex partner. Make sure that once you or your sex partner has used the vibrator, that you remove that condom and put on the new one before taking turns with the device.

Once you are finished using your vibrator, always take that extra bit of time to clean and dry it it probably. This will ensure that you always get the best experience from it without worrying about getting any type of unnecessary infection. This will also ensure that your vibrator lasts for a very long time. Always follow the instructions carefully when it comes to cleaning your vibrator. In addition, spend a little extra money on good quality sex toy cleaners. These cleaners have been designed specially for sex toys so that they are able to stay clean and last long.

By keeping these tips in mind, you will find that you will be getting the best possible experience from your vibrator. Good luck and enjoy it.

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