My Girlfriend Won’t Let me Go Down on Her

Hi Susan,

My girlfriend and I have been going out for  six months now, and overall things are going great. There is just one small problem;
Every time I try to go down on her, she stops me. When I ask her why, she tells me that she just doesn’t like it.
Is there something that I am doing wrong? What can I do to fix it?
From,
Confused

Hi confused,
There can be many reasons why your girlfriend does not want you to perform cunnilingus on her, including the fact that she simply does not like it.  
However, some of the more common reasons are that she is just embarrassed or shy. This could be due to the fact that she is worried her vagina might smell or taste bad, or looks ugly to you.
My advice to you is to just be patient and give her time. Help her gain confidence by telling her how beautiful she smells down there, and how you get so turned on by it. When she finally does let you go down on her, take it slow and never stop complimenting her.
Whatever you do, never try to persuade her, or be pushy. This will just make things worse. When she is ready, she will let you know.
Good luck!
Susan

 

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  1. ishy says:

    hi susan,

    how can i give orgasm to my partner while making love and how can i tell she has come

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    Hi Susan
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