How to Get Your Woman to Be More Seductive and Kinky When Making Love

Many men out there would like to see their partners more seductive and sexy. To watch them while they act out certain fantasies like, dancing sexy and undressing slowly, would be a great turn on for most men.

Generally, men are visual creatures, and unlike women, they are easily stimulated by what they see. Unfortunately, some women feel shy or lack self confidence about themselves in how they look. They might feel that they will look cheap if they perform certain acts like lap dancing, or undressing in a sexy and seductive manner in front of their partner.

Getting your woman to be more seductive is not that hard a task. There are a number of steps that you can take to help make her more seductive. In most cases there may be an underlying issue, which makes them shun away from these types of bedroom activities.

Assuming you and your partner have some history together, you will know what aspects of her body she feels uncomfortable with. Normally, a woman may comment to her partner about a part of her body that she is not happy with. This is what causes them to have a lack of confidence, when it comes to exposing these areas.

In order for her to overcome this, you need to make her feel good about herself, and make her feel totally comfortable in all situations while in your presence. As a start, you can tell her regularly that she looks beautiful, or compliment her on something that she is wearing, or about the way that she was moving.

If you tell her that she looks good today, it does not mean that she will start acting sexy that day. This will take time and patience. It could take weeks, or in some cases months. However, the key to success is to be consistent and patient with her, and keep complimenting her beauty.

Women like to feel sexy, so if you show that you notice her, and tell her how hot she looks in this or that, she will start to feel more confident with herself. You can then move on to say how a certain aspect of her body drives you absolutely wild, or how something she did by mistake looked so sexy. Be careful not to overdo it, and make sure you come across as being sincere.

Many men forget to tell their partners how beautiful they are, and this may lead them to feel unappreciated or make them feel that they are not attractive. Avoid this situation by making your woman feel desired. Let her know that she excites you and turns you on. Make her feel that you can’t get enough of her, and she will correspond by giving you more of herself.

Another good way of getting her to do more seductive things, is by introducing the idea of sex games or role playing games. This will be an easy way for her to be seductive without her worrying about how she looks and what she is doing. Since she is acting as another character and not as herself, she should feel more at ease.

Start off with simple roles and gradually make them more intricate. By doing this, you can get her to feel comfortable with carrying out small roles which you like. When she sees that this is turning you on, and that it leads to exciting and amazing sex, it may make her more receptive to try out new ideas.

When introducing sex games or role playing, make sure that your woman is comfortable with the idea. Never expect to do anything that she does not want to do. Ultimately, if your partner is still not comfortable with the idea of acting more seductive, then leave it at that. It is important that she is just as comfortable as you are when making love.

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  1. Stuart M. says:

    well, it won’t be easy to convince my wife to do that for me… could any of you tell me how everything was when you did it? It’ll be very helpful to me. Thanks!

  2. Mel2001 says:

    Stuart, I think that what the article is trying to say is that you should not try to convince your wife to be more seductive, but rather to help her feel more comfortable with the idea. It is not an easy transition. She needs to be comfortable with you and trust you before she can take such a plunge

    Hope that helps.

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