How to Finger Your Woman and Bring Her to Orgasm

You can give a woman amazing pleasure by using your hands on her vagina. Most men overlook this fact, and as result miss out on a very effective way of stimulating a woman. However, keep in mind that not every woman may enjoy having her partner place his fingers inside her vagina. Instead, she may be content with having his fingers stimulating her clitoris only.

Every woman is different, and as a result, each one will respond accordingly to the different stimuli presented to her. For this reason, it is extremely important to know your partner. Find out what she likes and dislikes. Just because other women liked a certain fingering technique, it does not mean she will. There are those who have had painful experiences with fingering, and those who are just very shy about it.

First and foremost, you must make sure that your hands are clean, and that you have trimmed nails. You are dealing with a very sensitive part of a woman’s anatomy, and unclean hands or sharp nails can cause infection or painful cuts on the inside of her vagina. It is a good idea to use anti bacterial soap for washing your hands if you have it.

Now that you have her in front of you, don’t just plunge your hands into her pants. You should at least get her receptive by making her feel sexy and telling her sweet things. Then start to kiss her and proceed as you would in foreplay. One you feel that your woman has become sufficiently aroused, you can slowly start to move your hands downwards to her garden of paradise.

Start of slowly and gently, and control the speed and movement of your fingers. The best way to stimulate is by keeping a constant rhythm and pressure on the area. While you are doing this, keep watching for signs and signals as to her pleasure.

You will see if she is enjoying it or not by the way she moves, or by her words. If she is saying “more” or “don’t stop”, you are on the right track. On the other hand, if she stops your hands, or says stop, then you are not giving her pleasure. You can also ask her for feedback while you are stimulating her. However, avoid asking too much, as this may put your partner off and make her lose the mood.

When it comes to a woman’s vagina, they all have hidden hot spots, that when touched, will spike their levels of pleasure. To find them requires exploring around the inside of her vagina, and seeing where she responds best. There are various ways that you can use your fingers to give your woman blissful pleasure.

Here are some fingering techniques that you can use;

The clitoris is the most sensitive part on a woman’s body, and when stimulated correctly, can be extremely pleasurable. Before you attempt to stimulate it, make sure that she is sufficiently self lubricated, or use a water based lubricant on your fingers. Using the tips of your index and middle finger, gently rub her clitoris in a circular motion. Start off slow and gradually increase the pace according to her needs. If you do this right and follow her lead, you will have your woman reach an orgasm in due time.

Another great way to drive her wild will be by using both of your hands. This requires a bit of coordination. While using one hand to stimulate the clitoris by rubbing it in a circular motion, use your index and middle finger on the other hand by sliding them in and out of her vagina. This will give her two different sensations at the same time.

Please remember that your woman must be sufficiently lubricated before you insert your fingers into her vagina. Not doing so will make it very uncomfortable or painful for her. The best approach is to use one hand to stimulate her clitoris by lightly rubbing it in a circular motion. Take your time doing this until your partner is sufficiently wet. At this point you may proceed with the other hand and slowly insert one finger, then another is she chooses.

You are now ready to try a technique that should enable her to have a g-spot orgasm. With the palm of your hand facing upward, insert your finger(s) into her vagina. Then curl them upwards, like in a “come here” gesture. In this area you should feel a spongy patch that is about the size of a quarter. This is the g-spot. With your fingers still curled, slowly but firmly tap this spongy patch with your fingers. With each tap, make sure to apply a light but firm pressure to the g-spot. Gradually increase the frequency and pressure according to how your partner is reacting. Once again, if you do this correctly and follow your partner’s lead, she will be experiencing a powerful g-spot orgasm.

Don’t forget to continue using the other hand to massage her clitoris. If you time it correctly, you might be able to give your woman a g-spot and clitoral orgasms at different intervals, or even the same time!

One important note to remember;

When your woman is close to achieving an orgasm, and she starts breathing faster or moving around, whatever you do, Do Not Change the Speed, Pressure or Direction of Your Fingers. Just keep on doing the same thing with the same speed, pressure and direction just before, during and after she orgasms.

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