Feeling Confident Makes You Naturally Look Confident in Front of Women
We always hear how women are greatly attracted to confident men. This is nothing new. Every dating book you read will preach this to you. They will make it one of the golden rules in being a successful pick up artist.
However, what they never seem to really go into depth about, is exactly how to be and look confident to a woman. Sure, these guides will tell you to stand up straight, always smile, walk like you own the place, etc, but we all know that means nothing if we truly don’t feel confident.
Well, that is about to change today;
To look confident, you have to genuinely feel confident. To genially feel confident, you have to feel comfortable with your environment and people around you. If you were paying close attention, you would have noticed a Crucial Word that popped up in this paragraph: “Comfortable”.
Think about it; if you feel comfortable in your environment, you will naturally feel confident. When you walk around in your messy, but paid for apartment, do you get all nervous and jittery? I’d hope not!
When you go shopping at your favorite supermarket and a beautiful woman walks up to you and asks you where the canned tomatoes are, do you freak out and turn into a raving monkey?
The reason for this is simple. You go to the supermarket on many occasions during the month, and the thought of dating a woman has dropped from priority number one to priority number 5. So, when a cute chic walks up to you, your panic bells don’t get activated anymore. Also, even if you were to see an attractive lady walking by you, and you decided to chat her up, you would find that it is not so nerve wrecking as it would be at a night club.
Now that we have established that being comfortable is the “be all end all” to not only looking confident, but feeling confident, the next step would be to use this bit of knowledge to your advantage.
Try this the next time you go out to a night club;
Pick one night club and make it a rule to hang out at this venue for the next five visits.
On your first visit, don’t think about talking to any woman, be they ugly or beautiful. Instead, spend quality time on just getting used to the club and the music. Just hang out with your friends and get a feel for the place. Get “comfortable” with it. Once again, make sure that you are not eyeing any woman, or thinking about chatting to any woman. That must be the last thing on your mind.
On the third visit, continue to just hang out with your friends, but also become friendlier with the bartender. What you want is for him or her to notice you as a “regular”. This will make your stay even more comfortable.
On the forth visit, you should feel very relaxed with your environment. You will find that other people might even begin to greet you as a “regular”. This is a good sign. Now spend time chatting to all types of woman, regardless of how they look. Just enjoy the conversations, and never try to get her number.
By doing this, you will start being “comfortable” with the women around you, and will show most women in the club that you are a very sociable creature. Women love social creatures.
By the fifth night, you should be feeling very comfortable in your surroundings, and that will naturally radiate confidence around the room. Without you realizing it, you will be talking to beautiful women as well. Now all that you have left to do is ask for her number! Good luck!
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