Why Some Women Feel Ashamed to Like Hot Sex

I recently read a report which claims that women have more interest in talking about  horny, lusty, intense sex than men do. However, most men don’t realize this because women keep it to themselves.

The report goes on to say that the reason most women don’t openly show this side of themselves is because they feel ashamed. Not only that, but they are afraid that they might make their partners feel inadequate.

In all honesty, I think it is quite sad that some women have to feel this way;

Why should women feel embarrassed for opening up when it comes to their sexual wants and needs? This is one of the reasons why many women find it difficult to achieve orgasms. They are too busy worrying about their reputation and the reaction of their partners. I guess we can only blame society, the media, and anyone else that has such a closed mind on this subject.

You need to take it upon yourselves to help your partner open up and share her most intimate feelings with you. If your partner’s sexual wants and needs make you feel inadequate as man, the problem lies with you and not your woman. It is time you learn to grow up.

During lovemaking sessions, both parties should be enjoying every aspect of it. As long as there is a strong feeling of trust, respect and affection, both parties should be allowed to open up.

Sex does not always have to be gentle and romantic. Sometimes a woman or man just wants to enjoy a session of raw passionate sex. At times they might want to talk dirty. Whatever the case may be, it is natural and healthy as long as there is trust, respect, communication, understanding, and affection from both parties involved.

I’d like to hear your thoughts on this subject, so please feel free to comment bellow.

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  1. maurice says:

    I think most women do not want to be called a slut. Society teaches us that a women that loves sex is slutty especially if she wants more than one lover. A man is called a slut if he wants more than one lover. Double standards.

  2. Mandy says:

    I agree with Maurice. Even though nowadays it is not as bad as before, this way of thinking still exists. I don’t know what men are afraid of. But then again, I guess we can’t put all the blame on men. As a woman, we should take it upon ourselves to make the change.

  3. Irfaan says:

    but how do you know how far is too far, cos you dont wanna start a hot night of raw sex only to have your partner thinking your an sex beast afterwards (in a bad way, not a good way)

  4. Irfaan says:

    i mean i would love to give it to a real slut but i am tied to one woman and unfortunately she is so innocent and dare i mutter to her (do me like a youknowwhat) i dont know what will happen, so yeah, points to maurice

  5. Elhassan says:

    I and my wife have real big problems with one another. Inspite of that we have great great intimate and open sex together. Recently she told me not to call her names and spit in her face when she is on top of me. she use to love it and now somtime when I talke dirty during sex i feel she realy dosen’t mind but she is living this conflict of feelings. can i get some insight/explaiation of this situation.

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