Avoid Making This Mistake When Making Love

Today, I have decided to write about an "issue" that unfortunately haunts many of our subscribers, as well as many other men out there. It is because of this "issue" that you will find yourself living a life full of anxiety, frustration, and unnecessary insecurities. In addition, it will ensure that you will want to become a better lover for all the wrong reasons.

You see, no matter how many sex techniques you learn and master, if you are learning them for the wrong reasons, I can guarantee you that you will still have a sex life filled with anxiety, frustration, and unnecessary insecurities.

I would like to throw a few questions in front of you;

Why do you want to become a better lover?

Is it because you want to show your partner that you are a real man both outside and inside the bedroom?

Is it so that she doesn’t leave you for another man because you think that she thinks you’re not a great lover?

Is it because you have a small penis and therefore want to prove to your partner and yourself that even men with small penises can be great lovers?

Is it because you want to be as good as all those men are on the movies so that you can prove to yourself and to your partner that you are just as good as any superstar?

Is it so that you never have to disappoint your woman again?

Are you beginning to see a pattern here? These are all the wrong reasons why you want to become a better lover. As a matter of fact, these all all the wrong reasons for wanting to have sex, period!

First of all, women find themselves being attracted to men that seem to care less about wanting to prove themselves. They find themselves attracted to men who would rather spend their time enjoying themselves while at the same time being considerate to their lover. I want you to think about that last phrase; it all comes down to enjoying yourself thoroughly while at the same time being sincerely considerate during a lovemaking session.

In order to put yourself permanently in this type of situation, you have to become self-assured and naturally confident. You have to learn to love yourself and be totally comfortable with yourself in any social environment.

By learning to truly love yourself regardless of any short-comings you might have, or think you might have, you will be putting yourself one step ahead of any other average man without having to feel that you need to prove yourself in any way. You will find that it becomes easier to better yourself in all aspects of your life, both in and out of the bedroom, simply because you are focusing your energy on actually having fun and simply wanting to learn because of curiosity and enthusiasm, and not because you want to feed the cravings of your insecurities.

You will find that because you become self-assured and confident, your partner, as well as many other women, will naturally be attracted to you because of the positive aura that surrounds you. You will find that becoming a better lover becomes possible only because a woman will find it easier to communicate with you because she doesn’t have to worry about insulting you or hurting your ego in any way.

When you finally do become a great lover, it is solely because you learnt to thoroughly enjoy yourself while at the same time being considerate to your partner, thus allowing her to enjoy herself thoroughly as well.

So, If you find yourself answering yes to one of the questions mentioned above, then it is time that you be honest with yourself and realize that you are having sex for the wrong reason.

If you don’t deal with these "issues", you will find that no matter how skillful you become as a lover, you will always still feel the need to want to prove something to your partner or to other woman.

In conclusion, learn to thoroughly enjoy yourself while at the same time being considerate to your lover. Once you learn to do this, only then should you look for new techniques to improve your lovemaking skills.

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