Can We Use a Vibrator during Foreplay?

Can women or men use a vibrator during foreplay to help enjoy sex is one of the most common questions that both men and women ask us. The simple answer is yes, a big most definitely yes! The long answer is that it depends on your approach and your partner’s approach towards introducing sex toys into your lovemaking sessions.

You see, some men believe that a vibrator could end up being the "ultimate pleasure giver" to a woman, therefore making these men feel that there is just no way that they can compete with it. Then there are some women and men that are afraid of introducing a sex toy into their lovemaking sessions because they are worried that their partners might think that they are perverted in some way for even thinking about the idea. The reality is that both concerns should be thrown out the window.

Men, the day you feel a vibrator or any sex toy will replace you is the day you need to seriously question your overall self-esteem, regardless of whether that vibrator exists or not. For those that are worried about being perverted, or feeling that other people think that they are being perverted, it is time to take that giant leap out of the Middle Ages. There really is no legitimate reason why both you and your partner cannot enjoy that extra bit of pleasure that a vibrator is able to provide. Yes, you read correctly, for the both of you.

This is what I mean when I say it depends on your approach;

If you are going to introduce a vibrator into the bedroom, and see it as another exciting way of  introducing some extra fun for both yourself and your partner, then you have the right approach. Just as you would use your mouth and tongue on your partner, or use your fingers on yourself or your partner, there is no reason why a vibrator would not be used under the exact same concept. Now think about it; have you ever been threatened by the idea that your partner’s hands and fingers will totally replace you as a lover? Now ask yourself this; are hands and fingers not sex toys in the own right? I’m hoping you see my point here.

Here are a few things to keep in mind when including a vibrator in your lovemaking sessions;

Use your vibrator to pleasure both yourself and your partner. That’s right guys, a vibrator can also be used to pleasure a man! It doesn’t matter what type of vibrator it is, those vibrations can give a man the same amount of pleasure as it can to a woman.

Ok, I totally understand that for many straight men, the idea of having themselves being stimulated by a vibrator  that resembles a penis can be a "little" disturbing. However, this can easily be  rectified by simply pruchasing a vibrator that looks like anything else but a penis and yet is still able to give both a man and woman incredible pleasure.

The good news is that many of these vibrators have actually been designed for couples to enjoy during foreplay.

You can find a few examples by clicking the following links;

Palm Size Massagers

Tongue Vibrators

Finger Vibrators

Bullets & Eggs

Do not only rely on the vibrator when using it during foreplay. In other words, always combine other methods of stimulation while at the same time using this amazing sex toy on each other. For example, men, while using the vibrator to stimulate your partner’s vulva externally or internally, use your mouth and tongue to stimulate her breasts and nipples at the same time. You might want to let your partner use the vibrator to stimulate herself so that your hands are also free to explore other areas of her body. Ladies, while using the vibrator to stimulate your partner’s testicles or perineum, use your fingers, mouth, and tongue to stimulate every inch of your partner’s penis at the same time. Really, it is totally up to your imagination in how you can turn your lovemaking sessions into a night of kinky passion.

By having this approach, you will begin to see just how exciting and thrilling the idea of introducing a vibrator into your lovemaking sessions can actually be. But as I said before, it all depends on your mindset in what you think about sex toys.

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